You go right ahead and cry whenever you want to. The build up to the surgery and the worry about what is really going on is enough to build up anxiety in the toughest of us. Then the trauma of surgery and what they found, the huge wound, the anaesthetic, and now the healing process, with a little concern about what the future may hold. You go right ahead and cry. It's a lot to deal with. I hope your other half is a supportive, loving person to help you through this. It's a bit harder on your own. I'm sure you're in good hands, and I hope your specialist has kept you informed of the outcome of the surgery. All the best ,and remember to rest, rest, rest. Let yourself heal.
Esmeralda said
11:53 PM Jan 8, 2012
Oh Della poor you - those temperature spikes aren't fun 'cos you feel so blah - cry all you want, I'm sure it has been all a bit much and you just got to let it out. Then smile at the world and take a few deep breaths and then go back to getting over the operation so you can go home.
Sheba said
07:57 AM Jan 9, 2012
Hope it's only a minor glitch Della. And somehow I don't think Graeme's the running type.
Keep positive, and go home soon. Thinking of you every day.
Cheers,
Sheba.
glassies said
01:11 PM Jan 9, 2012
Thank you guys well its monday so the docs are onto me now ,had more blood taken got to do a wee Test next,and now waiting on an intravenous drip for antibiotics.
Im so lucky i have my man still spiked temps so he rang this morning i burst into tears hes out working for energex said the Boys watched him go sit under a tree in the shade and cry ,so he was able to leave the job for a while came to see me and has Now gone back,hes my hero that man ,i heard from my daughter that i cant load up pics unless the site has an app that doesnt make sense to me but she said she will take a look it works to put them on facebook but not here oh well on with my day catch up soon take care all xx
Happywanderer said
01:16 PM Jan 9, 2012
Thinking of you glassies. Chin up.
_wombat_ said
01:42 PM Jan 9, 2012
As HW says keep your chin up, and don't worry about the pics until you get home and are feeling much better.
But once again if you really want to get rid of that iPad I'll send you the postage
Cheer up girl you will get there.
-- Edited by _wombat_ on Monday 9th of January 2012 01:43:28 PM
scotia59 said
03:09 PM Jan 9, 2012
ditto that everyone has said. Tears are a good release so don't hold them back, you always feel a bit better after a good cry I find.
Jean
Elle on Wheels said
01:59 AM Jan 10, 2012
I'm thinking of you mate and just go one step at a time hey, get those tests over and done with, all the poking and probing and then the healing. It's great you have such a lovely supportive partner. You will come through this so cry and do whatever feels right at the time. And as Jean said, ditto.
Kiwi-as said
10:07 PM Jan 11, 2012
Glassies, thinking of you from Kiwi Land.
glassies said
07:33 AM Jan 12, 2012
Thanks guys well over a week now ive got a bela vac it catches all the stuff so until The drainage is down to about 20 mls i cant go anywhere its a hundred ml at the moment Started off at 200 so getting there slowly ,last night was my first night without drug relief (endone) so crappy sleep plus a rude person beside me with the light on all night reading
Cant wait to be in my own bed :)
_wombat_ said
08:34 AM Jan 12, 2012
will not be long before you are in your own bed. Take care glassies, thinking of you every day
Then the trauma of surgery and what they found, the huge wound, the anaesthetic, and now the healing process, with a little concern about what the future may hold. You go right ahead and cry.
It's a lot to deal with. I hope your other half is a supportive, loving person to help you through this.
It's a bit harder on your own.
I'm sure you're in good hands, and I hope your specialist has kept you informed of the outcome of the surgery.
All the best ,and remember to rest, rest, rest. Let yourself heal.
Oh Della poor you - those temperature spikes aren't fun 'cos you feel so blah - cry all you want, I'm sure it has been all a bit much and you just got to let it out. Then smile at the world and take a few deep breaths and then go back to getting over the operation so you can go home.
Hope it's only a minor glitch Della. And somehow I don't think Graeme's the running type.
Keep positive, and go home soon. Thinking of you every day.
Cheers,
Sheba.
Test next,and now waiting on an intravenous drip for antibiotics.
Im so lucky i have my man still spiked temps so he rang this morning i burst into tears hes out working for energex said the
Boys watched him go sit under a tree in the shade and cry ,so he was able to leave the job for a while came to see me and has
Now gone back,hes my hero that man ,i heard from my daughter that i cant load up pics unless the site has an app that doesnt make sense to me but she said she will take a look it works to put them on facebook but not here oh well on with my day catch up soon take care all xx
As HW says keep your chin up, and don't worry about the pics until you get home and are feeling much better.
But once again if you really want to get rid of that iPad I'll send you the postage
Cheer up girl you will get there.
-- Edited by _wombat_ on Monday 9th of January 2012 01:43:28 PM
Jean
The drainage is down to about 20 mls i cant go anywhere its a hundred ml at the moment
Started off at 200 so getting there slowly ,last night was my first night without drug relief
(endone) so crappy sleep plus a rude person beside me with the light on all night reading
Cant wait to be in my own bed :)
will not be long before you are in your own bed. Take care glassies, thinking of you every day