Bless you Marj. You are going for good reasons, it will all work out well for you. Its hard when our loved ones spread themselves so far apart. Cyber hugs to you.
Good luck on your relocation. It's hard to move on from a place you enjoy, but that's life. Sometimes life decides what we have to do beyond our own plans. You'll be right.
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Well Marj we all have to decide what is right for us and you have made that decision, you would have thought long and hard I imagine and now you can begin the next journey. GOOD LUCK.
So right guys, has taken a bit of getting used to the idea, not about being up there but about leaving down here. Things are things after all but your kids are your kids. She moves out as soon as she find a place to rent in Maryborough and then he is on his own and can't do it by himself. I'm looking forward to living in a large place with a huge back yard after living in a little one bed unit with a courtyard. Will be great to have a good sized garden to work in. I might even learn how to use the ride on mower. Its going to be a new learning curve for me at my age but these challenges keep us young don't they.
Just think about the trip to Greens Lake when you need a break, instead of going north you will be able to go south, who knows what is the right thing to do..........sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith, we are about to do that in the next 6 weeks, scarey but better than dying of boredom in front of the telly.
Well, like TB - welcome in advance back to sunny Queensland, tho I know what you mean - I love Echuca - never lived there, but it just has that something about it.
You will be closer for some of us to come and visit, which will be a good thing. My oldest son is coming to live up here at the end of June (unless something drastic happens to change his mind) - looking to go working in the mines, buy a house here, with a granny flat for me - hope it all works out.
You are doing the right thing for you and for your son Marj, so soldier on with the clearing out and packing - and will see you soon!
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Thats what I said to the kids. I will be doing my travelling in reverse. Coming back down here in the summer for my stay at Greens Lake and see the family. It really doesn't make much difference which end of the land I am in as I can still travel to the other, Myrtle and I.
Marj, will you be able to park Myrtle close enough to the house so that you don't have to walk so far...in the rain or otherwise...to pack and unpack her?
Yep, right beside the house under the carport. He's well set up there. There's a garage on the otherside where he keeps his Harley. Has two driveways. One for him and one for me. Upstairs/Downstairs. I will be renting downstairs but probably eat upstairs with son. 6 bedrooms, 3 up, 3 down. 2 bathrooms, 1 up, 1 down. We don't have to be under each others feet but at the same time I will become his carer.
Good on you HW, glad to have to come and make Qld your home. You'll have lots of GN visitors; you'll probably have to keep a diary and we'll all have to book in for a visit....LOL
Why would I go to WA wombat when my grandson and all the rellies live here in Victoria?? eh! Thanks everyone, amazing how quickly the table turns. One neighbour has bought my large chest of draws and other neighbours have already cleaned out the back courtyard of pots and potplants. I can hose that down now and know its all done. I will still be doing my trips around up there, just a bit shorter than originally planned.
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Good luck with it all HW you will settle in well once a Mum always a Mum Our son and daughter in law have told us we can move into a granny flat with them too but at the moment we are O.K. where we are but I guess we will do that one day. Take care, Helena.
Yes same from me Marj good luck with your move .... Yes your kids will alway be your kids i know that why i am still here ....More for the grandkids then the older ones
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Hi Marj, good luck with your move. I'm sure everything will turn out fine. Our kids are our kids no matter how old they are. Mum's are wonderful people. xx