You go right ahead and cry whenever you want to. The build up to the surgery and the worry about what is really going on is enough to build up anxiety in the toughest of us. Then the trauma of surgery and what they found, the huge wound, the anaesthetic, and now the healing process, with a little concern about what the future may hold. You go right ahead and cry. It's a lot to deal with. I hope your other half is a supportive, loving person to help you through this. It's a bit harder on your own. I'm sure you're in good hands, and I hope your specialist has kept you informed of the outcome of the surgery. All the best ,and remember to rest, rest, rest. Let yourself heal.
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Oh Della poor you - those temperature spikes aren't fun 'cos you feel so blah - cry all you want, I'm sure it has been all a bit much and you just got to let it out. Then smile at the world and take a few deep breaths and then go back to getting over the operation so you can go home.
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It aint over until the fat lady sings, and I dont feel like singing just yet!
Thank you guys well its monday so the docs are onto me now ,had more blood taken got to do a wee Test next,and now waiting on an intravenous drip for antibiotics.
Im so lucky i have my man still spiked temps so he rang this morning i burst into tears hes out working for energex said the Boys watched him go sit under a tree in the shade and cry ,so he was able to leave the job for a while came to see me and has Now gone back,hes my hero that man ,i heard from my daughter that i cant load up pics unless the site has an app that doesnt make sense to me but she said she will take a look it works to put them on facebook but not here oh well on with my day catch up soon take care all xx
I'm thinking of you mate and just go one step at a time hey, get those tests over and done with, all the poking and probing and then the healing. It's great you have such a lovely supportive partner. You will come through this so cry and do whatever feels right at the time. And as Jean said, ditto.
Thanks guys well over a week now ive got a bela vac it catches all the stuff so until The drainage is down to about 20 mls i cant go anywhere its a hundred ml at the moment Started off at 200 so getting there slowly ,last night was my first night without drug relief (endone) so crappy sleep plus a rude person beside me with the light on all night reading