I stopped looking for a partner many years ago - it's something that "just happens" - it can't be pushed. When I said rare chance - I meant rare chance of finding a partner - you'd have to be very brave to take me on - I'm a baggage load of interest and confusion - scare any decent bloke. lol lol lol.
I divorced my first husband and buried the second - beware No. 3 - I may poison him. JOKING hehe.
I divorced all three Lesley, and No 3 died shortly after (couldn't live without me??).
IF (a very unlikely if) I came across another who interested me, it would definitely NOT be a full time or live in arrangement ever again. I LIKE being solo. I believe that lonely is something you can choose to feel (or not), just as I choose to feel happy
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Cheers, Marianna.
The more I learn about people, the more I like my dogs (Mark Twain)
I stopped looking for a partner many years ago - it's something that "just happens" - it can't be pushed. When I said rare chance - I meant rare chance of finding a partner - you'd have to be very brave to take me on - I'm a baggage load of interest and confusion - scare any decent bloke. lol lol lol.
I divorced my first husband and buried the second - beware No. 3 - I may poison him. JOKING hehe.
I divorced all three Lesley, and No 3 died shortly after (couldn't live without me??).
IF (a very unlikely if) I came across another who interested me, it would definitely NOT be a full time or live in arrangement ever again. I LIKE being solo. I believe that lonely is something you can choose to feel (or not), just as I choose to feel happy
Years ago when I was a solo between marriages (solo traveller for 20 years) I read a book by a Dianne something called "How To Live Alone & Like It" I have seen others similar since but I think that particular one must have gone out of print, it was a good read.
I consider myself lucky .. 1 partner for 34 years .. 2 great kids .. first "grandie" due in August .. and some really great GN's all 'round Oz .. Soooo good !
Not on here, but I am often amazed with why people think I need to have a partner to be happy!!!
I am solo, happy, independent, self funded (still working), I ask for help / advice when I need to and very much appreciate it, and happy to help anyone I can.
I say I am alone but not lonely, quite a big difference really...just saying how it is for me
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Judy
"There is no moment of delight in any journey like the beginning of it"
I will give you that one Vic but I dont do anybody's yard not even my own . I am not Mick and as to where he is living I couldnt give a tinker's toss as it is none of my buisness .