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Hi Sheba, nice to chat with you again. That was important reading, but not sure it was what I wanted to see. Probably needed to see it though. Thank you for the alert. Personal alarm and pepper spray also on the list now. 



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Hi Sheba, nice to chat with you again. That was important reading, but not sure it was what I wanted to see. Probably needed to see it though. Thank you for the alert. Personal alarm and pepper spray also on the list now. 


 You may find pepper spray is illegal in some jurisdictions, but wasp spray isn't and it will send a single jet 3-5 metres , really stings, is cheap, available in most places and legal to carry.



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Wasp spray is very efficient

Reasonable cheap and does

A excellent job when used

Highly recommended

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I can only say what others have already said. Go for it and enjoy.

I have been travelling full time for about 6 months now and I love the lifestyle, the people I have met, the places I have seen, and all the little challenges that have been presented to me. Talking about stepping outside the comfort zone, for me it has been a GIANT leap.

Always been a city person, never really camped, never had to "boy" stuff, always dressed well and wore makeup. Today, don't like going near the city, love being outdoors and finding the out of the way spots, have learnt to do lots of "boy" stuff, dress very casually albeit clean and tidy, hardly ever wear makeup anymore, and having the time of my life.

I have met the most wonderful people, have had the best times around camp fires, learnt about places that I did not know existed, and travelled roads that I would not normally have travelled.

I did my research, hired a couple of MH's to ensure that I really wanted to do this and I could handle it. Something I would recommend.

I asked many many many questions on this site and there was always support and good solid advice available.

Do your research, take the time to talk to other GN's, I use to stalk them at a free camp not far from where I was living, and then take the leap of faith and just do it. The "what ifs" will take care of themselves. Listen to your intuition, when on the road and enjoy.

I free camp more than CPs, the people are more friendly and fun, and the scenery is always better.

So in summary, like others have said, just go do it and you will not regret it, that I am sure of. Only you can know what will suit you, and how you wish to travel. For me it is full time, for others it is short trips, and others it is a yearly longer trip. We are all different but have the one thing in common, we love this country and love exploring it. So come join us and hopefully we will meet you on the road somewhere someday.

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Is pepper spray the same as the police carry - I think it's referred to as capsicum spray. Ok, thank you for that, Native Pepper and Ding. Wasp spray it is. Would a chemist would stock it? Or a hardware store, like Mitre 10? 



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Is pepper spray the same as the police carry - I think it's referred to as capsicum spray. Ok, thank you for that, Native Pepper and Ding. Wasp spray it is. Would a chemist would stock it? Or a hardware store, like Mitre 10? 


 Yep pepper spray is capsicum, you can get wasp spray at most supermarkets we've found. Yet to spray a wasp though and get European wasp spray, it causes short term real pain. The girls carry it with them when we rarely venture into big towns and they go exploring. That only happens when we need something we can't get in smaller places, like Williams pale ale organic beer, or Tas sparkling wine.



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Hi Shekon, You sound like you're really enjoying life! I love talking to people too, and love the outback, but not the maddening crowds. I wouldn't want to do it full -time, well, not yet anyway, but I don't want to be feel that I can't just get up and go when I please. Thank you for your helpful reply and encouragement. Everyone has been really generous in passing their information on and been very supportive. I honestly appreciate it. I have been caravanning before, so know the lifestyle is good, there are many happy times to be had, and it's healthy being outdoors in the fresh air, but I have never travelled on my own. I think, at the stage where I am now, research is the key. As you and most others have said, do the research, hire vehicles I'm interested in, and do  short trips to see how I and the vehicle go, and how I feel about everything afterwards. Then, if I still want to do it, buy what I'm comfortable with, and well, Oz is really my oyster. I hope to meet you all out and about one day. I have the most wonderful and loving support system in my children and the rest of my family, but I think friends are the family we choose. You're all friends, and thank you all again.  



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Hi Romy, I was 53 when I traveled Aust in 2005/6, solo with 2 dogs, and my girlfriend was solo in her car with 2 dogs. We would meet up and travel together some of the time, but I traveled a lot solo. I had a lot of trouble having the courage to free camp, leaving from Perth, so always stayed in caravan parks. It took me to near Townsville in Qld to finally free camp, I was so scared, but nothing happened, and after that I continued to free camp all the way back to Perth with no incidences. Like the other advice go with your gut feeling, that is why it is a gift we have been given.

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Hello Romy - I have asked this question myself. I have a slide-on but I feel that a MH would be a more secure mode of travelling as I get older. If the dream comes off and I buy the MH I will be solo too and that first step will be the biggest but after that just imagine what we can see in this beautiful, beautiful country. This is a wonderful site for help isn't it? Look forward to your updates.

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Thanks Miss Rose. My goodness, there are so many sisters out there doing it for themselves! Were you ever afraid to go outside in the middle of the night when one of your dogs wanted to pee? Sorry, I have to ask. lol



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Hi Nelly, thank you. It's what I was thinking myself, and another lady said the same thing to me in here. I am a big scaredy cat on my own, and I'll be the first to admit it, so my mode of transport will definitely be one I can lock myself in at night when/if I free camp. I'll be right in caravan parks, that won't be a problem, but it's the free camping I love, yet am afraid of on my own. I love to boil a billy on an open fire (when permitted), put the camp oven on, and sit by the crackling fire to watch the glowing coals or the beautiful stars. I totally agree with you in that this is a wonderful site, and so are the people in it. When a person uses their time and energy to help someone out, that means a lot to me.  



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Hi all, I have just updated my avatar to one taken only a few weeks ago. Thought it was about time as the other one was taken least 7 years ago. The cleavage was totally unintentional. My blouse top kept falling forward, and I spent a good part of the night hitching it up.

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A much nicer photo Romy, and us blokes don't mine the cleavage a bit, very demure compared to the cleavage the youngies present today (again, not that us blokes mind, at least those with red blood, lol). smile

 



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Thank you, Vic. Yes, very demure to everything many of the youngies present today, but it seems to be that time, and it's mostly the norm rather than the exception these days. And blokes will be blokes. lol

 



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Slightly OT Romy (on the subject of younger women showing more etc), but I wonder how this Italian Minister (being sworn in) felt when she saw this photo later, very embarrassed I would imagine, I have seen worse though.

Back on topic, in your new avatar you look a lot more relaxed and happy, a very nice photo indeed smile

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OT, Vic? Not sure what you mean. But I have only just stopped laughing at the pic. Not laughing at the Italian minister, because she certainly has the figure for it, but the poor bugger was probably horrified when/ifshe saw the photo later. On topic though, thank you again. I am more relaxed and happy in this photo - for a couple of reasons - but also because I was out for dinner with really good friends, in a very nice venue, and was having a fantastic night.

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OT just means "Off Topic" so apologies for diverging (about what younger women wear ) from the topic which is Travelling Alone, I am sure when the time comes and you have chosen a suitable form of transport once you head off somewhere you will wonder what you were worried about.

One thought that did cross my mind was that when you have chosen your form of transport etc is to find out what GN solo ladies or other GN's are around your area and see if you can travel on a trip or part trip with them until you gain more confidence on travelling alone, or keep an eye out for a Getogether that you can get to where other GN's are in free camps.  

If you are travelling to them alone and they are some distance away, you could stay in caravan parks along the way until you reach them initially until you are happy to do more free camps along the way.   Usually, especially if they are listed in the Camps books (eg; Camps 7) there will be others at these camps so you will not be alone, look to see who is there when you get there and as others have said go by your gut feeling and if you feel ok to stay there do so.

I am sure once you have broken the ice you will take to it like a duck to water like the others have, female and male. smile

 

 



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No problems, Vic, and no apologies necessary. I believe I was the one who first went OT.

Safety in numbers. Great advice. Thank you, and I must buy a Camps 7. I have heard they're really good, and I think I've seen different books from the Camps series discussed in here from time to time. All the kind information, hints, tips and friendliness I've received in GN since starting the topic have been great, and I've related to them all. Before, I used to think I couldn't travel by myself, whereas now I am thinking perhaps I can. Advice from seasoned travellers is always the best, because they have the experience and know what works and what doesn't. So, I have homework to get stuck into, some more thinking to do, and as I said previously, I will update my status when I have more to share on the topic, or when I have more questions to ask - and I believe that will definitely happen. In the meantime, I hope the GN forums continue to be the supportive and friendly network they are. I pop in every now and then and see what's happening in the other threads, and like the banter between some, so happy and safe travels to you and all!  



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Hi again Romy,

The next edition of Camps Australia Wide (Camps 8) is due out in February 2015 if you want a later edition, although each has a four year free online update for 4 years from date of release, pays to do it when you get one as even new editions have amendments since they were printed.

I also have Caravan Parks Australia wide by the same people as well as it gives a more full listing of caravan parks than most.

See here for more info;  http://www.campsaustraliawide.com/ 

Can be bought direct from Camps online or most camping shops, large booksellers and some newsagents etc.

The RAC in WA also sell both but I'm not sure about other states, if they do RAC members get their RAC discount.

I have redone your avatar photo if you want an upright one, see below; (right click and save to your pics)....

 



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Hello Romy - Welcome to this great site. I posted a similar post as you sometime ago. I have a slide-on but I think as I get older I would prefer the security of a small MH - if ever the dream comes off I will then set off. That first time would be the biggest step then after that what wonderful things are to be seen in this beautiful, beautiful country of ours. I have done a bit of travelling in a convoy with family. I think if you can change a tyre, check your vehicle's water and oil would be a good start. My mechanic said you can carry a lot of spare parts but what was I going to do with them so he gave me the basic things like fuel filters and fan belts to carry. Looking forward to your decisions as you go along - happy planning.

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Hello again Romy and all who read this - I had a bit of a gremlin in the computer - seems as though my other post came through with a few others but I did add a bit more to the second one anyway. Apologies to all

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Hi Vic, thank you for straightening my avatar! You're very kind. When I first loaded the photo via GN, that's the way it went in, and I had no idea how to rotate it once it was in GN. However, I use an iPad for its portability and speed, and I have now saved your edited version to my photos, and I'll use it to replace my current avatar. Thanks again. smile

I'll endeavour to keep an eye out for and buy a copy of Camps 8 when it comes out thanks, and I'll check out the web address you provided for Caravan Parks Australia Wide book too. It and Camps 8 will make excellent reading, will make my anticipated adventure more real, and with my trusty TomTom, they will make planning, travelling and camping all the easier. smile 

 



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Hi Nelly,

Thank you! I've been a member of GN since 2011, but haven't been in here for a while. smile I'm starting to look forward to the possibility of travelling, because it's becoming more and more of a reality, the more I read in here. The advice and encouragement is absolutely fabulous! I'm a bit of a camera buff too, so I can add that to the list of things to do whilst on the road. I also figure that, because both of my adult children are into camping, I can tag along sometimes with them and my grandchildren once I have my own space. I know I would very welcome to do so. They're very supportive. 

I love your avatar photo Where was that taken - love the reflections in the water. 



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Hello Romy - Thank you for your comment on my avatar. It was taken at probably one of my favourite places - down on the Cooper at Innamincka. I could easily go out there and stay a while - just love it.

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It's beautiful! A couple of years ago, we had 3 nights camped on the banks of the Cooper just after good rain in the area. As a result, the creek was full and flowing, many various water birds were there in their thousands, and like you, I could have stayed there for a couple of weeks, taking photos, reading, walking through the bush, and just vegging out. Every morning, you could almost set your alarm on the birds leaving the creek to forage for the day, and with just as much regularity, they returned in the late afternoon to roost for the night. It was a spectacular sight to see. I have very fond memories of the area - especially at night sitting beside the camp fire (with a beverage in hand) basking in the glow of red and orange coals and the occasional, flickering blue flame. Memories - makes me homesick for the bush.



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Those places have a certain 'pull' don't they? Even though you go there you seem to want to keep going back. I like dabbling in photography too - great hobby. I have lived in the bush all my life - just love it - a visit to Sydney occasionally does it for me for the city life.

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That's it, Nelly - the pull of the bush. I grew up in the bush, married a townie when I was 25, and haven't lived in the bush since. I had my horses and dogs, and I really missed them and the freedom, the quietness, and the healthiness of it all. The things we do.  I would love to go back to Cooper Creek - there's a certain something about it.



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Well Romy there is your reason to get out there and get travelling hey!! First trip to Innamincka and stay beside the creek for a while. May see you there lol!!!

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Hi Nelly,

My trip to Cooper Creek was to the section near Windorah in SW Queensland. SA is a bit far for me to go just yet. But I agree; it's a very good reason to get travelling. It's a beautiful, beautiful place. 

 



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Where ever it is it will be beautiful - so much to see. Let us all know how you get on.

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