We had a similar issue with not so much our shower drainage as the sink surcharging into the vanity. I found that the outlet of the van was 40mm but the drain hose was only 20mm which I thought would be a choke point.
my solution was to source some 50mm flexible hose to attach to the outlet and we have had no problem since.
frank
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Avagreatday.
Kathy and Frank currently at Home near Quirindi NSW
I too also had a 20mm hose but upgraded to a 38mm hose but then had a problem with the wife tipping tea leaves down the sink (which settled at the end of the hose forming a choke).
We then swung over to tea bags & coffee and another problem solved.