Sorry about your loss AK, I experienced similar to you back in January when my father passed away and I had to do a quick 3 day trip back from Oman. I have to agree with Rusty Tauranga and the Coromandel Peninuslar area is a beautiful part of the world although enjoying the scenary is probably going to be the last thing on your mind....take care.
Thanks guys and ladies . He was heaps depressed . Seems he had car accident . We sort of think other things ??? But then I think he was just driving crazzy ., like he didnt care . Last message I got from him was his wife is termally sick in hospital and he cannot manage seeing her pain !! Sheesh .. Car accident put two other people in hospital! Fortunately not serious injuries ., His family gave him a great send off under the circumstances. He reffereeed rugby over there.